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Showing posts with label finance. Show all posts
Showing posts with label finance. Show all posts

Thursday, October 3, 2013

semi-necessities: transportation

i know that is totally not a thing, but i didn't know what else to call this next section of budget categories i will address. so these are the things that are definitely not necessities, but they're not pure wants either. today we will talk about all things transportation.

jake's car is paid for. in the future, we plan to be able to say that about all vehicles, always. but right now we are still paying for my car. financing a car is about one of the least financially responsible things to do, in my opinion. i don't say that judgmentally; i'm in the boat with ya. i just feel so stupid continuing to pay for something that is losing value every day. a few months ago, we looked into getting a less expensive car, and essentially spending whatever amount we could get from the sale of my car to purchase one. but we decided against that, because my car (a honda accord) is one that holds its value much better than others, it's safe, will be a great family car, and gets pretty good gas mileage. so we took as much money out of savings as we felt comfortable with, and used it to pay a chunk down on the car. we refinanced it with a credit union. we did opt for a longer repayment term (five years), but we are paying the same amount we would have had we financed for four years. it still saves us over $100/month from our previous payment. again, our goal now is to pay off the student loans. when those are paid off, if we still owe on the car at that point, it will become our new goal. so for the sake of transparency here: we owe about $4500? on my car. we pay $115/month. the car is valued at about $13,000. so while our current situation is not our ideal, it's a lot better than the "norm". as i mentioned in the post about savings, we do plan to pay cash for our vehicles in the future. if we need a car and only have $1000 saved, well, we'll be driving a pretty lousy car until we can afford a better one :) but we will be driving our current cars until they plumb won't run anymore.

we have a local insurance agent, and ended up saving a lot over what i was paying previously. i have no idea if it's the best rate possible. ideally we would check around every few years. we do pay our insurance once a year, which is the most financially responsible way to do it. we put back about $75/month, so by the time the bill comes, we will have all we need to pay it. if you decide to do this (and i think you should if at all possible), it will cost a chunk up front. we have both our cars and our home all with the same people, so that also saves.

we put $10/month back for car maintenance. would be nice to do more, but we just can't right now. we would love to get it built up and keep $500 on hand at all times but we definitely aren't there yet. we use this money now for regular maintenance, but at some point we will need to have some saved up for other things as our cars age.

both our cars get good gas mileage - anywhere from 27-35 mpg, depending. we drive straight drives, which helps a little, and enables us to be in a little more control over mpg. we basically try to be smart about our gas usage. i don't make random trips to just one place; i combine stops in one general area and take one trip. we budget $40/month for jake (he gets paid mileage through work, but he has to drive 30 miles to get to his first stop, which is not covered by work), and $100/month for me. those are really not high amounts. but by being smart about it, we can make it work.

so that's that on transportation. the whole not-financing-cars thing is a touchy subject, i am aware. at the very least, please, PLEASE don't ever be satisfied with or adopt the mindset that you'll always have a car payment. you do get to decide that, you know.

Tuesday, October 1, 2013

how we save on necessities: shelter

so basically shelter just means where you live. we do own our house, but are not necessarily of the opinion that owning is always the better option. home ownership comes with additional costs, such as taxes and improvements -- there are always improvements (needed and otherwise). so here's how we save.

we got a great deal on our house. fortunately, it was already pretty cute. but even if it wasn't "my style" or what i would have described as my dream house, jake would have bought it anyway, because of it being such a great deal. so i guess the first savings step would be to not be too shallow when it comes to your home. because we saved so much on the house, we were able to renovate the interior. another great thing was that jake has always been a terrific saver. because of this, we were able to put 20% down on our house. this makes our overall debt lower (although we won't really be satisfied until it's all gone), but also allowed us to avoid PMI. don't understand that whole thing completely, but i know finance people say to get rid of it asap, and you can't do that until you have at least 20% equity in your home (i think i worded that right). all of that adds up to mean that our monthly payment on our home is less than what we would pay to rent anywhere. we did finance for 30 years at a fixed rate of like 4%, which is awesome. as i've mentioned, our primary goal right now is paying off student loans. any extra money we have goes to that. when those are gone, we will likely refinance to 15 years, unless the interest rate is crazy, in which case we will just pay extra. either way, it is not our intention to be "slaves to the lender" (biblical description of debt of any kind, fyi) for 30 years of our lives, or even 15 years, if at all possible.

i will also address utilities here. as far as electricity, we do pretty great. we don't leave on lights. we rarely use our dryer. in the summer, our thermostat is at 74, and we leave our ceiling fans on; in the winter it's at 67. i am going to begin using my crockpot as often as possible, because it takes way less energy to heat it up than the oven. we set up the equal payment plan with duke power - it's a free service - so that allows us to plan our budget more accurately.

water/trash is where we find we sometimes go over what we've budgeted. in the winter, when i don't sweat, and even some throughout the rest of the year, i don't shower daily. jake really needs to because of his job and being around animal guts and all. we actually do use our dishwasher, but only when it's full. a lot of our things have to be hand washed, such as wood cutting boards and utensils, pizza stone (not just for pizza), cast iron skillet, etc. i still have no idea which is the greater evil - more energy by using dishwasher, or more water by hand washing - so we try to be wise in our use of both.

i think i've addressed all things shelter-related, but let me know if i've left something out or you have any further questions. :)

Monday, September 30, 2013

how we save on necessities: food

first, let's define "necessities": food, shelter, clothing. there are varying degrees of all of those, but keep in mind that the most basic forms are the necessary ones. that being said, i will address how we plan for all of those, and some ways we save.

"food" encompasses groceries and eating out. eating out is not a necessity, but i will include it in this post anyway.

we spend about $190/month on groceries, which for us includes household products such as toilet paper, etc., and personal products, such as toothpaste, etc. jake eats the same as two adults. so this really is a pretty low number (i am not trying to be prideful here; it began out of necessity, but now it's fun to see what we can get on that amount!). how do we do it? i only grocery shop every other week. that is the only time i enter a grocery store. we recently got a chest freezer so this next month will be my first attempt at once-a-month shopping. the less times you enter the store, the less you are exposed to temptations at the check out, or even walking the aisles. so the whole going to the store every day to get stuff for supper? definitely not the way to save money (yes, this does take planning. but trust me--you end up saving tons of time in the long run, too). i go in with a list, and only get what's on the list. i keep a tally of what i'm spending along the way (i know some can do it mentally, but i literally make a tally mark on my list -- this is vital, in my opinion!), so if i find i'm way under budget, i may pick up a few extras for fun. i try to not spend the entire amount every time, in case something comes up and we do have to run to the store between shopping trips -- but those times are few and far between. whenever i have it on my list to pick up dry goods, i get more than i need. that way i have a mini-stockpile in case something were to prevent me from keeping to my shopping schedule. we store the extras in our basement (regardless of where you live, you likely have room for a stockpile of your own...although it may require some decluttering, and that is a subject for a whole other post!). this way, we never fully run out of food. we pull from the stockpile to fill our pantry. so when we are out of something in the stockpile, that's when we put it on the list; not when we are completely out of it altogether. i coupon a little bit for some of our household and personal supplies. you can see some of my previous posts (sorry, i don't know how to link them :/) for more info on that. we use un-paper towels that i bought on etsy instead of regular paper towels. these can be washed and reused 40 bazillion times, rather than having to buy paper towels constantly. we do end up purchasing paper towels, too, but we rarely use them. i meet my mom at costco every now and then for things we can buy in bulk, like toilet paper and coffee and other random things. we do buy freezer bags, because i buy meat in the larger quantities, then split it up and freeze it. but as for regular ziploc bags, we don't use them. we also bought reusable sandwich bags on etsy, and wash them as needed. as for cleaning supplies: i plan to begin making my own as i run out of those in my couponing stockpile. that goes for laundry detergent too. we do not use dryer sheets. we only use our dryer for sheets and towels anyway - and that's only until sweetheart puts me up a clothesline - but we have wool dryer balls (guess where they're from - etsy) that cut down on dryer time (also saving on energy costs!). so i think that addresses everything grocery-wise.

right now our budget for eating out is $20/month. that is so super duper low. and no, it's not always fun. but cooking at home is so much cheaper and healthier! that basically allows for a meal out every month, or maybe two fast food meals every month. eating out technically falls into our "everything else" section of budget categories (see "our freaking budget", a finance blog i previously suggested), so we do allow ourselves a little extra some months. but for the most part we rarely eat meals out. there is a little bit of genius that goes into our plan: whenever any parent or grandparent offers to eat a meal out together, take it! they feel bad because they think we're way poor (when really we are only slightly poor, but way cheap). don't tell them our plan ;)

and that's it for food. you now know how much we budget for it, and how we save. as always, any questions are welcome!

Thursday, September 12, 2013

saving

what i will be talking about today is liquid savings, as in an actual savings account.

we don't follow dave ramsey's method exactly. technically we do the 10-10-80 budget (10% tithe, 10% savings, 80% everything else), and beyond that we apply dave ramsey's basic principles, with a little suze orman thrown in (we follow her advice regarding credit -- dave says no credit, suze says protect your credit). dave says to put away an emergency fund of $1000, and then don't save any more until you have all debt paid off. but we save anyway.

if you'll remember from my budget outline, we actually save 5% and invest 5%. we feel it is wise to do both of those things, but we can't afford to save 10% and invest right now (we do put 10% of my "net" pay into savings). tomorrow i will talk more about investing.

we define "net" as being after our tithe too. so we take jake's take-home pay (the actual amount on his paycheck), subtract the amount we tithe (see yesterday's post for more info), and the amount we're left with is our "net". so multiply that by 5%, and that's how much we save. similarly to yesterday, we had to set a specific amount for this category, since we aim to end up with -0- after we have paid all our "accounts" (see our budget outline). it sure doesn't feel like much on a monthly basis. but we don't touch that money, and it adds up -- slowly, but surely.

once we have transferred the specific amount to our savings account, we have some mini-"accounts" within savings that we keep track of (for separate line item on our budget list, we have a spreadsheet we keep up with). we aim to have certain amounts in each of the following savings categories: emergency home repair, emergency medical, car replacement, and unemployment. so when we are tempted to take money out of savings to buy, say, a new coach purse, it's a pretty big deterrent to see that money coming out of the "car replacement" fund (knowing we desire to NEVER again have a car payment).

i know i didn't explain this very well. so seriously, please ask any questions you may have! hope this has helped :)

Monday, September 9, 2013

our budget outline

with today's post we begin the nitty gritty. i am trying to keep each day's post as short as possible, so today i will only post our budget outline. in the days to come i will go into more specifics about each category. as always, feel free to ask any questions :) you are welcome to set up your budget exactly like we have ours, but of course you can alter it to fit your family's needs.

jake's income:
  • tithe 10% of gross pay
  • mortgage
  • water/trash (fluctuates, but we do have a specific amount set of the approximate average)
  • electricity (we have recently signed up for duke power's equal payment plan - no charge to us, and much easier for planning the amount to allocate here!)
  • cell phones ($83 total for us both! i'm proud of that one :) )
  • groceries (includes couponing, household items, personal care, etc.)
  • car payment
  • car insurance (we pay this once a year, but still put back money for it every month)
  • life insurance
  • taylor's health insurance (thank you, state of nc, for making it basically impossible for us to add me onto jake's plan)
  • cable/internet (we cancelled our cable yesterday, but i wanted you to see where this used to go)
  • netflix
  • savings 5% of net pay ("net" as we consider it is after tithe has been taken out of his paycheck, too)
  • investments 5% of net pay
  • home improvement - anything over $x (his pay fluctuates month to month, so x = the lowest amount he's gotten paid in the last 6 months)
  • gas - jake
  • gas - taylor
  • car maintenance
  • gifts
  • christmas (this includes christmas gifts and decor or other celebratory enhancements)
  • eat out
  • activities
  • vacation (we put back as much as we can afford - not much - so hopefully we'll be able to get away occasionally. this category's new for us)
  • routine medical care (co-pays, prescriptions, etc)
  • clothing NEEDS (we really have all we need. anything we want comes out of any play money we have. so this is literally for when all of our underwear has holes in it and we HAVE to have new ones.)
  • beauty (my hair cuts, birchbox, makeup, etc)
  • weightlifting (idk what he does with this. gets protein powder and barbells and stuff i guess)
  • dolly (vet, grooming, food, etc. we're hoping to keep this as low as possible)
my income:
  • tithe 10% of gross pay
  • savings 10% of net pay (see "net" definition above)
  • jake play money (he uses it to eat lunch out during the week)
  • taylor play money (for my manis, obviously)
  • student loans: minimums
  • extra payment (a specific dollar amount) to the smallest loan
savings (where the money goes when we transfer it to the savings account):
  • emergency home repair (air conditioning breaks, water line bursts - i don't even know what that means, whatever. this is for true "we-have-to-do-this-now stuff)
  • emergency medical
  • car replacement (the goal is to never finance a car again)
  • unemployment
wow, this was a lot longer than anticipated. i wanted you to see every single line item. will explain more later. hope it's helped!

Saturday, September 7, 2013

our financial goals/philosophy

in order to maintain motivation, i'm going to suggest you create some sort of goal list or mission statement asap. today i will share with you our outlook on it all.

our overall end goal is related to the well-being of our family. we desire to have kind of a lot of kids (compared to the U.S. average; not compared to my ESL students!), and we want me to be able to stay home with them and homeschool, until a certain point anyway. we believe God's command to us is to be fruitful and multiply (obviously, not every Christian in the world feels this way, and we certainly don't pass judgment on others whose beliefs are different from our own). not only that, but we feel that my role as a wife and a mother is to serve my husband, my children, and our home. this is not something my husband is forcing down my throat, to make me subservient to him. it also not something i am forcing on him so i can sit at home all day and do "nothing". we believe this picture is one that can work beautifully, and does for many families, even today.

right now i only work part-time. that is by choice. although we have no children, i do have a husband and a home. i desire to throw myself and my heart into nurturing these things. we think it's beneficial for me to learn how to efficiently manage our family while there are only two of us, so as that number grows it is almost second nature to me. also, i have student loans. my income right now goes solely to pay off my student loans, and to any "extras" we feel the freedom to indulge in right now. for now, we each get roughly equal amounts of "play" money, in addition to paying off my student loans at a little over twice the speed intended by the lenders.

so to sum it all up: we want a million kids. we feel strongly that i should stay home with them, and teach them. we have to be debt-free to do that. we have structured our whole budget so that we live off jake's pay, and mine goes to debt reduction and a little "free" money for us both. it's hard. it's not always fun. but we believe it will all have been more than worth it in the end.

Thursday, September 5, 2013

why a budget?

so you only buy stuff on sale and you never overdraft your bank account and you pay off your credit card every month. why in the world would you need a budget? too restricting, and obviously, you're doing fine.

well, are you satisfied with "fine"? or do you want to be in control of your own money? we chose the latter. making a budget is pretty sobering. you write down $50/month for eating out, then look back at your checkbook and see what you actually spent last month was over $150. WHAT!? how?? your family only eats at mcdonald's. for a family of four to eat at mcdonald's it costs at least $15 or so (i'm totally guessing. jake kinda counts as two people, so for our family of "three" it's like $10). if you go through the drive-thru once a week, that's already $60 for the month. and of course you have to go out to eat after church on sunday, and you usually choose mexican or italian. for your family it's about $30 every time. so that's $120 a month. for your family of four to utilize the drive-thru once a week, and eat out after church on sundays, you've already spent $180 on eating out. and you think $50 is enough to budget for that?

the above is just one example. i'm trying to show you that having it all down on paper really makes you see clearly how much you are currently spend on everything. when it's all out there, you can then see where you need to cut back, or even (rarely) where you need to allow for more.

with a budget written down, you can also determine your financial goals and dreams, and plan for those accordingly.

a budget is not restricting; it's freeing. for someone who loves structure - like me - it really helps me to know that yes, we can go to the movies, but we don't have enough in the entertainment category to do popcorn at said movie. and usually i'll choose my own (homemade, better-for-you, more delicious) popcorn and a redbox movie. so just go ahead and determine that you're going to make you a budget. it'll be fun :)

Wednesday, September 4, 2013

finance-ish blogs i follow

today's post will be easy. i do want to encourage you to begin following every single one of the blogs i am about to mention. i'll try to list them in what i think is the order of importance/applicability (is that a word? we'll say it is).

1. our freaking budget. seriously, their blog is great. they have a little (a lot) more discretionary income than we do, but they are even more determined than we are to live on less while saving saving saving. i would say 100% you have to follow them.

2. loving simple living. this is more about the mindset. go back and read some of the older posts.  lately her posts have been about her life as a minimalist now, but occasionally she issues a "simple living" challenge of some sort. definitely worth following.

3. blissful and domestic. this is the blog of the woman whose family lives on $14,000/year. again, i prefer her older stuff, but she still posts some gems. she also has free, downloadable meal plans and grocery lists. she has posted about how her family lives well and enjoys their life on a minimal income.

side note to everyone reading this who lives near me now: if these people can do what they do, living near much more urban areas, imagine how much better we can do! we are so fortunate, and do not need to take that for granted. i don't know if you all even realize it, but as a "foreigner", i see it so clearly: when i can get my hair cut and colored and eyebrows waxed here for the same price i paid for a dry trim in burlington (not even big compared to other, real cities), where we live is CHEAP. yay for budgeting when it's made so easy for us!

so follow these blogs and get ready to be challenged the next few days. you can do it!